When it comes to the Trumps, controversy is never far behind. But while Donald Trump dominates headlines with politics and scandals, his wife, Melania, has been at the center of her own firestorm, rumors of a long-running affair that refuse to go away.
Since Trump’s first presidential run in 2015, Melania has been painted as a reluctant First Lady, often looking less than thrilled about public appearances. Even after his re-election in 2024, she kept up the image of loyalty, brushing off the swirl of his reported affairs with Stormy Daniels, Karen McDougal, and whispers about Jeffrey Epstein. But speculation has mounted that her loyalty may not be about love, but about protecting a secret of her own.
On the left, @realDonaldTrump . On the right, Hank Siemers NY.
Ever wonder why Melania spends so much time in NY? pic.twitter.com/nZRNeBQ3VA— MARGE 💙🌊🌊 (@Marge1234567) October 22, 2024
In 2025, chatter exploded on social media when a TikTok user alleged that Melania had a boyfriend during the early days of Trump’s presidency. The user claimed that she initially refused to move into the White House because she was keeping up a relationship with a Trump Tower employee. That “boyfriend,” according to the post, was none other than Hank Siemers, the Vice President of Security for Tiffany & Co., the luxury retailer whose flagship store sits right next to Trump Tower in New York City.
The rumor wasn’t born on TikTok, though. Back in 2019, comedian Noel Casler, a former staffer on The Apprentice, claimed that Melania didn’t live with Trump in Trump Tower but with her boyfriend. He alleged that production staff knew about the situation and even adjusted logistics for Melania during the show’s finale tapings to account for her separate residence.
First Lady Melania Trump
Hank Siemers pic.twitter.com/VgMzUSPry5— BenNyc (@ben_nyc) March 3, 2025
Other sources have fueled the flames. In 2017, novelist Monica Byrne posted, though later deleted, a claim that Melania and Hank had been involved for years with Trump’s knowledge. Byrne said there was even an understanding that if Trump lost the election, the couple would divorce, freeing Melania to go public with her alleged relationship. But Trump’s surprise victory in 2016 upended that supposed arrangement.
Reports circulating have echoed similar claims, that Melania has quietly maintained a romance with Hank Siemers throughout much of her husband’s political career.
For her part, Melania has never publicly addressed the rumors. She hasn’t confirmed them, but she also hasn’t forcefully denied them either. That silence has only fueled speculation. Hank Siemers, meanwhile, has also kept quiet. What is clear, however, is that the man exists and holds a high-profile role. His LinkedIn confirms he has worked at Tiffany & Co. since 1998 and still serves as Vice President of Security.
Alleged Connection Between Melania Trump and Tiffany’s Security Head, Hank Siemers: A Closer Look
Hank Siemers has been Vice President of Global Protection Services at Tiffany & Co. in New York City since February 2017, leading security efforts across the brand’s global… pic.twitter.com/OHjPQgsHOF
— Kio Amachree (@Ivory1957) November 12, 2024
The Trumps have always been an unconventional couple under the microscope, and Melania’s rumored affair adds another wrinkle to an already complicated marriage. To many observers, her stoic demeanor, her separate living arrangements in the early White House years, and her carefully measured public appearances all feed the image of a First Lady who is going through the motions.
Whether the rumors of a long-term affair with Hank Siemers are true or not, they have undeniably haunted her marriage to Donald Trump. In the circus of Trump-world scandals, Melania’s rumored romance remains one of the most tantalizing sideshows, whispered about endlessly, yet never proven.
Hey, she has her needs.
Maybe they need to do a DNA on Barron as he does look like he is Trump son
I do not think his marriage should be of concern to anyone because of their conduct. Some critics argue that President Trump’s approach to education appears inconsistent when considering the First Lady’s example. Historically, many First Ladies have served as role models by working as teachers, lawyers, or public advocates, highlighting the importance of education and professional development. For example, Eleanor Roosevelt championed education, human rights, and women’s empowerment. Jacqueline Kennedy promoted the arts and culture as integral to learning, while Laura Bush, a former school librarian, emphasized literacy initiatives. More recently, Michelle Obama inspired young people through her Let’s Move campaign and her strong emphasis on higher education, particularly for girls.